Key Takeaways
- •Prepare physically before the session starts—be in bed, comfortable, ready
- •Participation is optional—presence alone provides benefit
- •Regular attendance builds community and strengthens the relaxation response
- •Falling asleep during sessions is success, not failure
Live group wind-down sessions are a unique feature of Core tier and above—a weekly opportunity to settle into sleep with your companion guiding a group. Here's how to get the maximum benefit from these sessions.
Before the Session
Schedule Protection
Treat your session time as protected:
- Block the time on your calendar
- Decline other commitments during that window
- Set reminders for 30 and 15 minutes before
- Inform household members you'll be unavailable
Physical Preparation
Complete all bedtime activities before the session:
- Brush teeth, skincare routine, etc.
- Change into sleep clothes
- Use the bathroom
- Get water/anything else you need
- Set up your listening device (phone, tablet, speaker)
The goal is to be in bed, comfortable, and ready to relax when the session begins.
Environment Setup
Optimize your space:
- Dim or turn off lights
- Comfortable room temperature (65-68°F)
- Phone on Do Not Disturb (except for the session app)
- Headphones or speaker positioned comfortably
- Covers arranged how you like them
The 15-Minute Rule
Aim to be ready 15 minutes before session start. This buffer prevents rushing and lets you begin relaxing before the session even starts. Use those 15 minutes for a few slow breaths or simply lying quietly.
During the Session
Arrival
Join a few minutes early if possible. This helps you:
- Settle into the virtual space
- See familiar names if there's a participant list
- Resolve any technical issues
- Transition mentally from "doing" to "being"
Participation Levels
Sessions typically offer different ways to participate:
- Active: Typing in chat, responding to prompts
- Receptive: Following along with guided exercises
- Passive: Simply being present, listening
All levels are valid. You don't need to participate actively to benefit. Many people prefer to lie still with eyes closed, just listening.
Following the Guide
When your companion leads exercises (breathing, body scans, visualization):
- Follow along at your own pace—no need for precision
- If something doesn't work for you, adapt or skip it
- The guide's voice is the anchor, not a strict instruction set
- Let yourself drift if that's what's happening
If You Fall Asleep
This is success, not failure. You don't need to stay awake through the entire session. If you drift off:
- Your device will eventually stop on its own
- You got what you needed from the session
- No one notices or judges
- Waking briefly when it ends is normal
Building Regular Attendance
Why Consistency Matters
- Conditioned response: Your brain learns "this = relaxation time"
- Community: You start recognizing regulars, building implicit relationships
- Routine: Weekly structure supports overall sleep schedule
- Deepening benefit: The effect compounds with repetition
When You Can't Make It
Missing sessions happens. Don't stress about it:
- One missed session doesn't reset your progress
- Use solo audio content that night instead
- Return to the next session without guilt
- Aim for consistency, not perfection
The 4-Week Threshold
Research on habit formation suggests about 4 weeks for new routines to feel natural. If sessions feel awkward at first, give them a month of regular attendance. Most people report that by week 4-5, sessions feel like a welcome part of their week rather than something they're trying.
After the Session
If You're Still Awake
When the session ends and you haven't fallen asleep:
- Don't check your phone or turn on lights
- Let the relaxation continue
- Start solo audio if you want continued support
- Trust that sleep will come—you're prepared for it
If You Wake Up Later
Waking after the session ended is normal. If you can't fall back asleep:
- Start a solo audio recording
- Don't stress about "wasting" the session
- You still got the relaxation benefit
Common Questions
"What if I'm late?"
Join anyway. Entering mid-session is fine—just settle in quietly. Some benefit is better than skipping entirely.
"What if there are technical issues?"
Try refreshing or rejoining. If that doesn't work, pivot to solo audio for that night and troubleshoot before the next session.
"What if I don't like the other participants?"
In most sessions, you don't interact directly with other participants. If chat interactions bother you, close the chat or choose sessions that are listen-only.
"What if I need to get up during the session?"
Do what you need to do—bathroom, adjust temperature, whatever. No one notices, and you can rejoin where you left off.
Conclusion
Live sessions offer something solo audio cannot: guided, real-time relaxation with a community. Prepare before, relax during, and stay consistent. The benefit builds over time as your brain learns this weekly ritual means rest.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I watch recorded versions of missed sessions?
This depends on your companion—some provide recordings, others don't. The live element is part of the value, but recordings can supplement when you can't attend live.
Should I participate in chat or stay quiet?
Whichever feels right for you. Some people enjoy brief chat interaction; others prefer complete silence. There's no correct way—the session should serve your relaxation.
What if live sessions don't work for me?
They're not for everyone. If you consistently find them unhelpful after a month of trying, the solo audio may simply be a better fit. The Core+ tiers provide both options—use what works.
How is this different from a meditation app's live sessions?
The key difference is the ongoing relationship with your specific companion and the community that forms around them. You're not just doing guided relaxation—you're doing it with the same people and guide week after week. That consistency and community is what generic meditation apps lack.
